IN THEORY:Kids find happiness in faith

An AP-MTV poll has found that after their relationship with parents and friends, 55% of youths say religion makes them happy.

Does that number surprise you? Is this number at all reflected in your own congregations?

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I definitely believe that one who follows a life of spirituality will be happier, and I see this phenomenon within my congregation. A strong relationship with the Creator and a sense of shared fellowship and community with other believers can be a source of deep personal contentment.

In fact, the Torah states that “being happy is one of the greatest commandments.”

The theory is that a happy person is more likely to fulfill his or her religious requirements and serve as a positive role model for others. And most faiths encourage followers to treat others with kindness and compassion, thereby uplifting society as a whole.

Nevertheless, there is a danger in touting religion as some kind of “happiness pill” or cure-all. The goal of religion is to provide spiritual fulfillment, which will hopefully lead to happiness — but the two are not always synonymous.

In real life, religion often requires self-sacrifice that can make a person feel somewhat frustrated or unhappy in the short run. Nevertheless, we must all adhere to the moral values contained in religious beliefs regardless of how they rate on the “happiness meter.” Most people will come to recognize and appreciate the long-term benefits.

Sadly, today many children are raised with the misguided notion that happiness must be achieved at any cost, and that instant, personal gratification should be a top priority. Their understanding of what is truly valuable is often limited, and they frequently end up pursuing various endeavors — including religious ones — for the wrong purposes. While they may find some temporary satisfaction, such actions can backfire in the long run and lead to great sadness and even clinical depression.

The key for all of us is to discern what in life holds true, lasting meaning; defining and pursuing that core goal will help us bring enduring peace and joy to our days.

Chabad Jewish Center

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Let’s not be so surprised! Religion creates happiness in the home and gives support and a stable base for all of life’s activities. This is a statistic to be celebrated.