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Small Wonders:

Slow down with a simple cup of coffee

April 11, 2009|By PATRICK CANEDAY

Stop.

Stop rushing. Stop racing. Stop stressing. Stop killing yourself at a job that doesn’t nurture your soul. Stop moving so fast through life that you miss everything that makes it worth living.

Stop.

We rush the kids to school. Rush to work. Rush at work. Rush home from work. Use the weekend to do everything we couldn’t during the week. We over-schedule ourselves so we don’t have a moment left idle. We fill our lives not only with the consumption of material goods that never truly slake our thirst, but also with the consumption of something so much more valuable. Time. What are we afraid of? What are we trying to accomplish by all of this? We have a problem.

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I met a man recently who wants to help us. He’s not a therapist or a minister for a mega-church. He didn’t write a self-help book and he doesn’t teach time management for corporate clientele.

He makes coffee.

Gregory Mandallaz sits behind his counter watching the world speed by outside the shop he appropriately named Simply Coffee. It’s “quaint” in the way one imagines when one puts quote marks around the word quaint. Sparse, small, rustic and modestly decorated with the wares of local artisans, it’s tucked away on a side street off a busy Magnolia Boulevard.

Step inside and you feel the time warp peel off behind you, shed like wet clothes on a rainy day. Gregory just wants us to have a cup of coffee and enjoy a little peace. If you like to search endlessly for parking, wait in line for your coffee and have people scream at you when your order is ready, this is not your place.

The first thing I notice when I visit Gregory is the table in the middle of the room. It’s just a dining table, like the one in your breakfast nook. But it always has a newspaper on it. You feel like you’ve wandered into his den. A newspaper on a table like that invites one to open it and stay for a while. Sit with friends and strangers.

Like his shop, Gregory is warm, friendly and welcoming. He can’t talk without smiling, and his smile is addictive. Each time a person walked by his shop, he waved at them as if he knew them. Then it occurred to me. He does.

“I like to speak with everybody with my bad English,” he says. “I smile and I think people like that.”

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