They may do so with the measured, rational response of youth: They will scream their brains out.
Growing up, I knew this fear. It's a form of pyrophobia or arsonphobia, and it usually hits young children or pets. In most cases, it's considered an irrational fear, although a gripping desire to avoid burning things seems pretty rational to me.
It's not uncommon in kids. Susan Park, a Burbank-based family psychologist, said the fear can be linked to hypersensitivity to loud noises or bright lights.
For those who have these specific fears without other sensitivities, Park said parents should have their children draw pictures of fireworks and focus on their positive aspects. Then they might try watching videos and gradually turning up the sound.
Usually it's the loud noise that turns children off, so Park suggests making children focus on the colors or the people that are around if you're going to a big event like the extravaganza at the Starlight Bowl. The night will feature performances by the Burbank Philharmonic and Stone Soul leading up to the light show.
“It just takes work for kids to know it's just smoke afterward,” Park said. “Most of these events are pretty safe, but it's the irrational fear part [they have to overcome].”
That advice probably would have helped me 20-odd years ago. Instead, I made a tradition of hiding in the car, or under it.
One year I was coaxed out to the blanket at the local park where my whole town went to view the fire-consumed sky. As the local orchestra's “1812 Overture” came to its crescendo, a wind crept over the pit and across the pond. Thousands of families welcomed the nice breeze sweeping the pond. A shiver ran over me, and not from the wind.